How Seniors Can Stay Connected During the Coronavirus Outbreak

These are scary times, but as with any type of pandemic, knowledge is power. How do you cope with COVID-19 as a senior? We have some tips for you that will leave you empowered and encouraged, so keep reading!

Everyone needs social time with loved ones, yet it seems that is exactly what we are being asked not to do these days with social distancing. While staying home is the best way to prevent the spread of the Coronavirus, there are things you can do to still connect with friends and family, and combat the boredom and/or loneliness that can come with such times as we are in right now.

First of all, TAKE HEART! The Coronavirus will cycle through and it will become a thing of the past quickly if we follow the counsel of our leaders and medical experts. They know more than we do and it’s important to put our politics aside and do what will keep us well. Now is not the time to get into arguments with friends or loved ones about how things are being handled. We must work together to successfully get through this time and back to normal life!

Schedule Time with Loved Ones and Friends Through Virtual Means

We are blessed to live in a world with technology that allows us to see each other as we have a conversation in real-time! Skype, FaceTime, Messenger video-calls, and many other social media platforms allow us to stay connected! If you aren’t sure how to utilize these apps, ask a family member or friend for help. It’s easier than you might think and will help you stay connected as you stay home. Of course, a simple phone call is also great!

Play Games Online

The Internet is a wonderful way to play fun games. Whether you love card games like Solitaire or Free Cell, or perhaps you love word games, crossword puzzles, or even the online version of Wheel of Fortune or Jeopardy, playing games online keeps your brain active and lets you compete with other friends online at the same time!

Consider Online Book Clubs

Do you love to read? No matter the genre, there are many book clubs that will welcome you to join the discussion of a good book! The best thing of all, no traveling is required, and you don’t have to be in a room full of people to participate!

Watch Online Entertainment

There will be many concerts and festivals that will be canceled during this time, which is unfortunate because we are in heading into the most beautiful time of year. But, musicians and bands across the globe are taking the shutdown due to COVID-19 and using it to still play great music online! There will be bands and singers of all types who will be performing live online via live stream to allow a live audience to still enjoy the performance. Platforms such as YouTube, Facebook, and Instagram are just a few of the ways you can enjoy a great concert online!

Finally, pick up the phone and talk the old-fashioned way! Seniors may not be savvy with all the tech devices and gadgets, but that doesn’t mean they should feel lonely! If you are missing loved ones and friends during this time, write a letter or enjoy a phone call with those you love! The beautiful thing about that is, everyone enjoys getting something nice in the mailbox that is actually handwritten!

For more information on how to stay safe during this Coronavirus pandemic, please contact us today! Stay well, stay patient, and stay connected. We will get through it together!!

Home Helpers of Cherry Hill is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, 24-hour care and live-in care, Alzheimer’s & dementia care, Parkinson’s care. post-operative home care as well as homemaker services in Audubon, Barrington, Berlin, Berlin Township, Cherry Hill, Clementon, Collingswood, Evesham Township, Gibbsboro, Haddon Heights, Haddon Township, Haddonfield, Hainesport, Lawnside, Lindenwold, Lumberton, Marlton, Medford, Medford Lakes, Merchantville, Oaklyn, Pemberton, Pennsauken, Pine Valley, Tavistock, and Voorhees, New Jersey.

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Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this blog or in any linked materials. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately.

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Quick Activities for Dementia Care

Although dementia is most commonly diagnosed in seniors, it can also happen to middle-aged people, as well as those who have suffered a brain injury. Many people still go on to live long lives after diagnosis, so it’s important to understand the condition and how you can treat it therapeutically. The goal is to help seniors retain their independence for as long as possible, as well as helping them have the best possible quality of life!

Symptoms will likely change as the condition progresses. It can range from occasional forgetfulness in the early stages, to not being able to recognize loved ones or interact with people in the late stages. The type of care needs to be given for the specific stage of dementia the person is dealing with.

As seniors progress through the different stages of dementia, the main goal is to keep them able to care for themselves and enjoy life. They may get to the point where they need constant care at some point. At the very least, they will have much shorter attention spans so it’s important to use quick activities that stimulate different parts of their brain.

The Importance of Quick Activities for Dementia Care
The following activities are designed to be quick and efficient. They will help your loved one stay healthy and happy for as long as possible as they cope with the effects of dementia. It will also appeal to their creative side, giving them things to engage in that are fun and bring joy, however, limited it may seem.

Here are a few ideas to get you started:

Do a Household Chore Together
Simple chores can be comforting on some level. It involves doing a familiar activity and allows the senior to focus on what they know how to do. This can be as simple as folding towels or drying dishes. Doing these activities may also trigger good memories and provide good conversation. The point of this activity is to help your loved one feel useful while also helping them cope with the symptoms of dementia.

Color in Adult Coloring Books
Coloring is a great way to improve memory and engage in something creative. It will help also with fine motor skills. Choose appropriate images that bring back nostalgic memories and aren’t too complicated. Engage in conversation while you enjoy this activity together.

Play a Memory-Based Card Game
Many card games are designed for strengthening memory skills. It’s also a wonderful way to relieve depression and lessen anxiety. The senior must stay alert to complete the game, and this helps them to remain focused and feel the positive effects of having completed something. Memory games such as Go Fish and Spot the Difference are a great place to start!

Take Short Walks
A brisk walk may not seem like a big deal, but it offers so much good for the treatment of dementia! Just a few minutes walking will increase blood flow to the brain, which helps everything. A little bit of exercise, fresh air, and time outdoors can do wonders for treating cognitive decline. If the patient is not very mobile, a simple walk down the hall may be all that is needed.

Sing a Song
Even if your loved one can’t join in, singing familiar songs can be a fun way that caregivers can interact with patients. Perhaps a song will trigger a good memory that will open conversation. They may even want to dance with you!

Utilize Animal Therapy
Animals have a wonderful way of bringing a smile to us. If you can’t see them in person, just looking at them on TV or watching funny shows that involve cute animals. Petting dogs or cats can release our “feel good” chemicals and this is why animal therapy is so popular among seniors.

Don’t be afraid to engage with your loved one, even if they seem distant. Simple and quick activities can go a long way in learning to cope with dementia and keeps your loved one more peaceful and calmer. For more ideas on activities for dementia, please contact us today!

Home Helpers of Cherry Hill is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, 24-hour care and live-in care, Alzheimer’s & dementia care, Parkinson’s care. post-operative home care as well as homemaker services in Audubon, Barrington, Berlin, Berlin Township, Cherry Hill, Clementon, Collingswood, Evesham Township, Gibbsboro, Haddon Heights, Haddon Township, Haddonfield, Hainesport, Lawnside, Lindenwold, Lumberton, Marlton, Medford, Medford Lakes, Merchantville, Oaklyn, Pemberton, Pennsauken, Pine Valley, Tavistock, and Voorhees, New Jersey.

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Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this blog or in any linked materials. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately.

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Tips for Improving Your Heart Health

Your heart is where your life is! A healthy heart beats between 60-90 beats per minute and that may slow down a little as we age. That means your heart could eat more than 140,000 times each day! It’s crazy to think that the organ we depend on for the very breath of life is the one we so often fail to take the best care of. In this article, we will give you a few tips to take care of your heart and live the longest, healthiest life possible!

1. Keep Your Blood Pressure in Normal Ranges

When a person has high blood pressure, a lot can go wrong with the heart, including plaque that builds up in your arteries and if that is ignored for too long, it can cause a heart attack due to low blood flow which causes blockages. High blood pressure is easy to treat these days and that is a wonderful thing, but it has become so common, that we rarely take it as seriously as we should anymore.

Your blood pressure reading should fall in the range of 120/80, or somewhere close to those numbers. Checking it often is okay, but your doctor should be checking it at least yearly to monitor it. If you are diagnosed with high blood pressure, your doctor may suggest some lifestyle changes to get you back into healthy ranges. These include lowering your salt intake, more exercise, no fried or greasy foods, cutting out alcohol, and in general just becoming healthier. This also includes losing weight if necessary.

2. Manage cholesterol and triglycerides.
Your doctor should run bloodwork when you are fasting. It will check the cholesterol levels in your blood. There is “good” cholesterol and “bad” cholesterol and you will be checked to see if these two levels are where they need to be. If they are not, you are at significant risk for heart disease or even a heart attack.

Be aware of your family history. If there is a lot of heart disease in your family, you may want to stay on top of these levels even more vigilantly. Before you go thinking you’ll never be able to ear French fries again, just know that a healthy diet does not exclude yummy foods! There are so many foods that are heart-healthy and delicious! Learning about good fats and bad fats is the first thing to do! Good fats will actually make your heart healthy, so eat up on fish, nuts, avocados, olives, and heart-healthy oils.

3. Maintain a healthy weight.
When you are overweight, it’s much more difficult for healthy blood flow to your heart and through the rest of the body. If there is a build-up of plaque in the arteries, you are far more at risk for heart disease. You should consider intervention if your BMI (Body Mass Index) is above 30.

4. Exercise regularly.
We all need exercise! Being active physically will increase your heart health dramatically! It also reduces your stress level, which makes you healthier all the way around. All it takes is 20-30 minutes of exercise several days a week to stay in top shape, whether you are walking, jogging or doing light aerobics. Try doing something fun like dancing to get you started!

5. Quit smoking.
Smoking is a terrible habit and comes with terrible consequences, including having a very negative effect on your heart health. Did you know that 20 minutes after stopping smoking your blood pressure returns to normal levels? It’s true! All it takes is 3 months before your lungs recover and heal, and within 12 months, your heart disease risk is literally cut in half. If you want to quit, it’s never too late! Ask your doctor for help.

For more information on how to keep a healthy heart that will tick for years to come, please contact us today!

Home Helpers of Cherry Hill is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, 24-hour care and live-in care, Alzheimer’s & dementia care, Parkinson’s care. post-operative home care as well as homemaker services in Audubon, Barrington, Berlin, Berlin Township, Cherry Hill, Clementon, Collingswood, Evesham Township, Gibbsboro, Haddon Heights, Haddon Township, Haddonfield, Hainesport, Lawnside, Lindenwold, Lumberton, Marlton, Medford, Medford Lakes, Merchantville, Oaklyn, Pemberton, Pennsauken, Pine Valley, Tavistock, and Voorhees, New Jersey.

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Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this blog or in any linked materials. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately.

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Debunking the Myths of Falling for Seniors

Are you one of the millions of Americans who think that tumbles and falls are just par for the course in older adults? The truth is, falling can be devastating for seniors and should be prevented at all costs. It’s not normal to fall and no matter how old you are, there are things you can do to prevent it.

Here are 10 myths and realities about falls:

Myth 1: Falling will never happen to me.

Reality: The truth is that 1 out of 4 older adults fall every year in the U.S. The results can be catastrophic, and the risk should not be underestimated.

Myth 2: Falling is just a normal part of aging.

Reality: Falling should never be considered normal, no matter how old you are. Preventing falls as you age can be easier than you think, and it starts with exercises to increase balance, having your vision checked, and making sure you follow directions carefully with medications.

Myth 3: I won’t fall if I just stay more sedentary.

Reality: The opposite is actually true! Falls will not be prevented by limiting activity. The more active you are, the better the condition you will be in, and this improves balance!

Myth 4: If I stay home more, a fall won’t happen to me.

Reality: Did you know that more than half of all falls happen at home? Your home can be more dangerous than you realize, so you should remove fall hazards such as throw rugs, poor lighting, and make sure that grab bars are installed in areas like the bathroom.

Myth 5: Muscle strength can’t be restored once it’s lost.

Reality: Even if you’ve never exercised much, it’s never too late to start! Becoming more active has a huge effect on the risk of falling, and it keeps you healthy in other areas as well. Muscle loss can be restored through even moderate exercise.

Myth 6: Taking medication won’t affect my fall risk.

Reality: Medications can definitely increase the risk of falls, and you should know the possible side-effects. If they make you dizzy or sleepy, you need to use a lot of caution. Always talk to your doctor about fall risks from your medications.

Myth 7: I don’t need annual eye exams.

Reality: The truth is that poor vision is a huge risk for falls. Vision changes and even some vision loss happens with age and you should have your vision checked every year even if you feel it’s fine.

Myth 8: Using a walker or cane will keep me from falling.

Reality: The trick to walking aids is to use them safely. Otherwise, they can become a risk in and of themselves. Ask your doctor about being properly fitted for a cane or walker to make sure it is the right size and height for you.

Myth 9: If I talk to my family and medical team about my risk of falling, they will become alarmed and limit my independence.

Reality: It is a team effort to prevent falling! Remember, the goal is to keep you safe and you will need help to do that. Don’t be afraid to talk about falls with your loved ones so they can help you maintain your independence as long as possible!

Myth 10: It’s none of my business if I have concerns about an older loved one’s risk of falling.

Reality: You should always talk to a spouse or trusted family member about your concerns. At the very least, you can help them remove hazards such as rugs, etc. The goal is to keep their independence in place, not the other way around. Assure your older loved one that you are only there to help!

For more information on the risk of falling and how to prevent it, contact us today!

Home Helpers of Cherry Hill is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, 24-hour care and live-in care, Alzheimer’s & dementia care, Parkinson’s care. post-operative home care as well as homemaker services in Audubon, Barrington, Berlin, Berlin Township, Cherry Hill, Clementon, Collingswood, Evesham Township, Gibbsboro, Haddon Heights, Haddon Township, Haddonfield, Hainesport, Lawnside, Lindenwold, Lumberton, Marlton, Medford, Medford Lakes, Merchantville, Oaklyn, Pemberton, Pennsauken, Pine Valley, Tavistock, and Voorhees, New Jersey.

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Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this blog or in any linked materials. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately.

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Helping Seniors with a High Protein Diet

Did you know that a diet high in protein is incredibly important for seniors? Protein is particularly important right before medical procedures or surgery and can help the healing time during an acute illness when the body doesn’t digest protein as easily. For our seniors, they especially need high-protein diets to maintain good bone density and muscle mass!

However, research has shown that a third of senior adults are not getting adequate amounts of protein in their diets. It’s due to several reasons, including:

  • Swallowing difficulties
  • Taste impairments
  • Limitations financially
  • Decreased appetite
  • Dental problems

The problem is compounded even more because older adults tend to not be as active in their lifestyle, and this can make the lack of protein consumption even more pronounced. Some of the damaging impacts can include:

  • Decreased mobility
  • Decreased muscles mass
  • Weak bone density
  • Longer times of recovery after illness or medical procedures
  • Eventual loss of independence

Ready for some good news? Well, older seniors who do get the protein that is needed will be far more likely to avoid any or all of these problems! They will stay independent much longer and maintain their ability to do tasks like getting dressed, seeing to their hygiene needs, climbing stairs, and even walking! A study at Purdue University states that “While eating an adequate amount of protein is not going to prevent age-associated loss of muscle altogether, not eating enough protein can be an exacerbating factor that causes older adults to lose muscle faster.”

The study also shows us that whenever possible, protein intake should come from natural food sources, rather than supplements like shakes. A good number to shoot for with protein consumption on a daily basis is about .8 grams of protein for every 2.2 pounds of body weight. This would mean that a woman weighing 120 lbs. should have 48 grams of protein each day. If seniors are already going through the aforementioned challenges, they can increase the protein to 1.5 grams per 2.2 pounds.

How do we increase protein naturally?

Here are some excellent food options that are rich in protein:

  • Yogurt
  • Cheese
  • Cottage Cheese
  • Lentils and beans
  • Chicken
  • Meat
  • Milk
  • Broccoli

Of course, you should always consult with the treating physician before changing your older loved one’s diet, but this guide can give you the general things to be aware of. Having your fridge stocked with items that are rich in protein, along with pre-cooked healthy meals high in nutrition can make a world of difference. Don’t forget healthy snacks too!

For more information and support on your senior’s dietary needs, please contact us today! We can help with meal preparation and other plans to make sure your senior loved one stays as healthy as possible for as long as possible!

Home Helpers of Cherry Hill is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, 24-hour care and live-in care, Alzheimer’s & dementia care, Parkinson’s care. post-operative home care as well as homemaker services in Audubon, Barrington, Berlin, Berlin Township, Cherry Hill, Clementon, Collingswood, Evesham Township, Gibbsboro, Haddon Heights, Haddon Township, Haddonfield, Hainesport, Lawnside, Lindenwold, Lumberton, Marlton, Medford, Medford Lakes, Merchantville, Oaklyn, Pemberton, Pennsauken, Pine Valley, Tavistock, and Voorhees, New Jersey.

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This blog provides general information and discussions about medicine, health, and related subjects. The words and other content provided in this blog, and in any linked materials, are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice. If the reader or any other person has a medical concern, he or she should consult with an appropriately-licensed physician or other healthcare workers.

Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this blog or in any linked materials. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately.

The views expressed on this blog and website have no relation to those of any academic, hospital, practice or other institution with which may have been mentioned or linked to in the article.

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Determining When Your Senior Loved One Should Stop Driving

It is never easy to have a conversation with a senior loved one that has to do with giving up the keys to the car for good. After all, driving represents independence and freedom for most people, so it can be really difficult to know when the time is right to ask your loved one to stop driving for the sake of their safety, and that of other people on the road. It can make your loved one feel embarrassed, and due to the high cost of taxi cabs, the cost of not driving can seem overwhelming.

Aging alone should not mean that a person must stop driving, but if there are safety concerns due to health or slower reflexes, it can become an issue. It’s important to have a good reaction time for any driver, no matter how old they are.

So, when should you have the conversation about deciding the time to stop driving has come? Here are a few tips to help you know.

Does your loved one seem easily distracted or even nervous or jumpy?
Safe driving is completely dependent on cognitive health. If dementia or Alzheimer’s has been an issue, it’s even more important to consider this carefully. Not only because reaction times may be compromised, but also because memory loss becomes dangerous if they don’t remember how to get where they are going.

Does your loved one have any type of eye disease or poor vision?
Obviously, driving is not safe if you can’t see well. Even something as simple as cataracts can be dangerous for someone behind the wheel. Other vision problems in the elderly can include diabetic complications, macular degeneration, or glaucoma. All these conditions can be extremely risky for people who drive.

Is your loved one hearing-impaired?
Safe driving requires good hearing as well as good vision. All the various sounds and stimuli around us such as honking, sirens, or the sounds of mechanical problems are important to be able to hear. Without sharp hearing, accidents are far more prevalent.

Does your loved one have slowed reflexes?
One of the most important factors in driving safely is a quick reaction time. Car accidents are scary for anyone, but for those who cannot react quickly, they are far more likely to be in a serious accident.

Medications and safe driving
No matter how old you are, certain medications don’t mix well with driving, and this is especially true with seniors. They may be more sensitive to the side-effects of medications and become more susceptible to accidents. If you are concerned about any medications, ask the doctor for your loved one and go through the list of what they take and any potential sedating effects. Don’t forget to include all over-the-counter medications and any vitamins or supplements.

For more information on how to determine when it’s time to talk about your senior loved one turning over the car keys, please contact us today. It might be a tough conversation to have, but it is well worth it in order to keep them safe, along with the other people who are on the road with them.

Home Helpers of Cherry Hill is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, 24-hour care and live-in care, Alzheimer’s & dementia care, Parkinson’s care. post-operative home care as well as homemaker services in Audubon, Barrington, Berlin, Berlin Township, Cherry Hill, Clementon, Collingswood, Evesham Township, Gibbsboro, Haddon Heights, Haddon Township, Haddonfield, Hainesport, Lawnside, Lindenwold, Lumberton, Marlton, Medford, Medford Lakes, Merchantville, Oaklyn, Pemberton, Pennsauken, Pine Valley, Tavistock, and Voorhees, New Jersey.

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Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this blog or in any linked materials. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately.

The views expressed on this blog and website have no relation to those of any academic, hospital, practice or other institution with which may have been mentioned or linked to in the article.

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Tips for Communicating with Someone Who Has Alzheimer’s

A diagnosis of Alzheimer’s can be frightening to everyone. Not only does it create memory loss, but also makes any communication at all very difficult as the disease progresses. If you have a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer’s disease, we know this can be a scary time, so we put together some tips to help you continue to have effective communication with your family member, as well as everyone involved.

Use Face-to-Face Communication. With any type of cognitive decline, it’s important that you use eye contact and call them by their name. Using their name helps to get their full attention and looking them in the eye can be reassuring.

Lessen Any Distractions. Make sure televisions and radios are turned down when trying to speak. Background noise can be very distracting so it’s important to find a place to talk in peace, so they don’t forget what your conversation is about.

One-On-One Communication. Trying to talk to a person with Alzheimer’s can be very frustrating if there are too many people around. Always try to talk to them when you can be face-to-face in a quiet spot, by yourselves. Other people standing around or trying to also be a part of the conversation can create confusion and anxiety.

Keep it Simple. Much research has shown us that conversations with a person who suffers from dementia should be kept short and sweet. Keep things simple and get right to the point without a lot of small talk. Simplicity helps keep your loved one from becoming frustrated with too many choices. Ask specific questions rather than open-ended ones.

Avoid Conflict. Arguing with a person who has dementia or Alzheimer’s is futile. It only serves to frustrate and upset both of you. When a disagreement happens it’s important that you don’t use inflammatory comments like “I just told you that” or “Why can’t you just listen?” If frustration is brewing, walk away and get some air.

Be Patient. Don’t try to finish their sentences if they are struggling. Instead, try to zero in on the point they are trying to make and help them by saying something that might jog their memory a bit. Finishing their sentences for them does nothing to help them remember anything, so be patient and just try to help them by asking specific questions.

Enter Their World. It’s important to realize that a person with dementia or Alzheimer’s is living in a different reality from yours. The disease can rob them of being in their right mind all the time. This could manifest in things like them thinking their spouse who died years ago is still alive. If this happens, it’s perfectly okay to just play along if it’s not hurting anyone. You will never convince them that you’re right and they’re wrong, so go along with whatever reality they insist on and it will often help lighten the mood.

Get Creative in Your Conversation. Choices are often difficult and frustrating with Alzheimer’s, so getting creative in your communication can help ease that frustration. A good example of this would be to point to the choices they have, rather than just list them off. Finding out whether they would rather have a turkey sandwich, or a ham sandwich might be too much, but instead, point to the particular items and ask which they would rather have.

Finally, keep on talking even if they are not talking back! They may get to the stage of being unable to have any effective communication, so it’s important that you show love and support by continuing to speak to them, tell stories, and have meaningful conversations.

For more tips on communicating with someone who has dementia or Alzheimer’s, contact us today!

Home Helpers of Cherry Hill is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, 24-hour care and live-in care, Alzheimer’s & dementia care, Parkinson’s care. post-operative home care as well as homemaker services in Audubon, Barrington, Berlin, Berlin Township, Cherry Hill, Clementon, Collingswood, Evesham Township, Gibbsboro, Haddon Heights, Haddon Township, Haddonfield, Hainesport, Lawnside, Lindenwold, Lumberton, Marlton, Medford, Medford Lakes, Merchantville, Oaklyn, Pemberton, Pennsauken, Pine Valley, Tavistock, and Voorhees, New Jersey.

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Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this blog or in any linked materials. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately.

The views expressed on this blog and website have no relation to those of any academic, hospital, practice or other institution with which may have been mentioned or linked to in the article.

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Losing Caregiver Guilt and Living at Peace

If you are feeling a bit guilty when it comes to taking care of your older loved ones, you are not alone. Negative emotions are quite common as you walk the caregiving process, and it’s important to know what to do with those emotions as they come up.

On top of feeling negative emotions, it’s also very common to feel guilty—and the worry that you aren’t doing enough, providing enough options, or generally taking care of every single detail you can. If this describes you as you care for your elderly loved one, just know you are not alone and there are many people and groups dealing with the exact situation you’re feeling. Whether it’s negative emotions or learning to care for an elderly loved one, you are not alone. For many, the demands of caregiving are only deepened by a sense of guilt—and often, we worry that we aren’t doing enough, providing enough, or taking care of enough that requires our attention.

The caregiver’s life circumstances can change depending on how needy the client has gotten. For many, the guilt starts to creep in when we actually tell ourselves things we feel we could’ve changed for the better—even if the events or choices were outside our control. This a dangerous blame game of caring for an elderly loved one may not go as planned, our guilt makes us shoulder the disappointment and self-blame in the way things turned out, even though we know better.

If you’re feeling caregiver guilt, the following statements may sound familiar:

  • We feel guilty we don’t spend enough quality time with just the person and find out what they liked and enjoyed. Those who feel guilty for moving their loved ones into a senior facility or assisted living, or that we’re hurting them and others by keeping them in their own home or moving them into our family’s home.
  • This is not the time to feel guilty, but instead, find those silver linings and help your loved one understand how life will be better surrounded by people who love them!
  • It’s easy to get caught up in guilt and completely miss the wonderful bond that can come from families who work together! Resentment only comes when we are not thinking of what’s best for the party besides ourselves!

Caregiver guilt is almost unavoidable. What you have to know is that it’s only our desire to make things better that came to make it tough on us. We want out loved ones to have the best, and even if they don’t respond great at first, they usually will in time. Your presence, showing up with meals and games, will all help them feel like home in their new place, so this doesn’t have to be a stressful time. Remember—they are oftentimes feeding off your energy! Our care and desire to make the best choices for our loved ones means that we can hold ourselves to high standards of behavior—and blame ourselves when the stress of caregiving shows on our careers, family life, or mental health.

But there are steps you can take to mitigate your unwarranted feelings of guilt. Relying on others, taking time for self-care, and focusing on the positive helps you balance your emotions. And a happier, healthier caregiver can provide better care.

Focus on the Positive
Guilt has a way of keeping you focused on the things you haven’t done right, but you can keep negative feelings at bay with mindfulness and self-reflection. Keep in mind, your goal is to keep your loved ones safe and provided for—and no one can truly “do it all”. Take the time to reflect on your accomplishments, to give yourself positive reinforcement, and to reassure yourself that the caregiving role is a challenging one for anyone—and your efforts go a long way to keeping your loved one happy and healthy.

Do For Yourself, Too.
There’s no quicker way to drain your emotional health than denying yourself the habits that keep you happy, healthy, and upbeat. When your schedule is full, it’s tempting to sideline your gym hours, social life, or even just some “me time”. But going for too long without any space for yourself will only leave you angrier, stressed, and unable to stretch yourself further. Put your self-care on your to-do list to keep it a priority, and focus on getting in your personal time—even if that means removing other tasks from the list (takeout is fine for dinner, sometimes!)

Find Support
Believe it or not, there are plenty of people in the same boat as you—or ready to offer an understanding ear. Search online for support groups in your area or ask friends and family if they know a fellow caregiver. Speaking to others lets you share stories, tips, or even just enjoy the company of someone facing the same challenges with positivity and a healthy mindset.

For more tips on how to deal with caregiver guilt, contact us.

Home Helpers of Cherry Hill is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, 24-hour care and live-in care, Alzheimer’s & dementia care, Parkinson’s care. post-operative home care as well as homemaker services in Audubon, Barrington, Berlin, Berlin Township, Cherry Hill, Clementon, Collingswood, Evesham Township, Gibbsboro, Haddon Heights, Haddon Township, Haddonfield, Hainesport, Lawnside, Lindenwold, Lumberton, Marlton, Medford, Medford Lakes, Merchantville, Oaklyn, Pemberton, Pennsauken, Pine Valley, Tavistock, and Voorhees, New Jersey.

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This blog provides general information and discussions about medicine, health, and related subjects. The words and other content provided in this blog, and in any linked materials, are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice. If the reader or any other person has a medical concern, he or she should consult with an appropriately-licensed physician or other healthcare workers.

Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this blog or in any linked materials. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately.

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How to Reminisce and Remember with Seniors with Dementia

Everyone loves to share memories, but there’s something extra special about sharing and talking about memories made many years back. For seniors who suffer from dementia or Alzheimer’s Disease, memories are especially special because the disease robs them of the ability to hold onto short-term memories, so long-term memories become all they have.

Therapy that involves sharing long-term memories is a very popular and effective treatment for those with Alzheimer’s. It helps them focus on the positive things that have happened in their lives, helps them feel connected, and generally boosts their sense of joy, belonging, and pride. For dementia’s earlier stages, it can also be helpful because the dementia patient often knows they are dealing with the cognitive decline and are looking for anything to hold onto.

There are some key differences between reminiscing and remembering. Asking someone if they can recall a place or a certain person can bring up negative feelings if they aren’t able to do this. So, rather than asking them to remember things, a person with dementia does better to ask them to reminisce about things. This allows them to steer the dialogue with what they do have memories of. The conversation becomes much more meaningful, this way.

One way to see this in action is to get an old family photo album or scrapbook and sit with a senior loved one. While going through it with them, pay attention to the pictures that spark a conversation that is based on their memories of the photo. If they are distressed with an unpleasant memory, you can be supportive and offer a listening ear, all while gently redirecting them to a more pleasant photo or memory.

You can also try these 3 reminiscing techniques with your senior loved one who struggles with dementia or early stages of Alzheimer’s:

Listen to Music. Dementia patients are extremely connected to music. This is because the part of the brain that controls musical memories stays very active even when the other cognitive parts of the brain have failed them. You can help them enjoy this activity by finding music they remember well, sing along with them, talk about memories attached to the song, etc.

Tastes and Scents. Our sense of smell and taste are also very connected to memories. You could get several scent jars and place scented things inside that the senior will be sure to remember. This could be pinecones, pine needles, certain foods, and things from the environment where he/she grew up.

Touch. Touch always stimulates us to think about certain memories. Just think about how many things you touch that instantly bring you back to childhood or a certain love interest. For seniors, this is no different. You can create tactile experiences such as old clothing, gardening, hobbies they once enjoyed like crocheting or knitting, or even working with tools or wood. Choosing items that you know will trigger memories from their past is important with this exercise and can be extremely therapeutic. They may feel garden soil in their hands and then begin telling you about the garden they tended as a child, etc. This gets them talking and reminiscing and helps to stimulate meaningful conversation.

There are many ways to help stimulate memories that are pleasant. Even unpleasant memories can be a positive thing to talk about as you remind them that these days, they are safe and secure and loved. It’s all part of the journey of dementia and Alzheimer’s. There is simply no better medicine than loving family members who will not leave their side!

For even more tips on how to engage and stimulate memories, or activities to help them reminisce, please contact us today!

Home Helpers of Cherry Hill is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, 24-hour care and live-in care, Alzheimer’s & dementia care, Parkinson’s care. post-operative home care as well as homemaker services in Audubon, Barrington, Berlin, Berlin Township, Cherry Hill, Clementon, Collingswood, Evesham Township, Gibbsboro, Haddon Heights, Haddon Township, Haddonfield, Hainesport, Lawnside, Lindenwold, Lumberton, Marlton, Medford, Medford Lakes, Merchantville, Oaklyn, Pemberton, Pennsauken, Pine Valley, Tavistock, and Voorhees, New Jersey.

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Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this blog or in any linked materials. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately.

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Keeping Your Loved Ones Safe from Elder Fraud

These days it seems that robocalls are just a part of daily life that we have to contend with. While it might seem easy to you and I to read through the calls and emails that are obvious scams, it’s not always so easy for seniors. They may not deal with technology enough to recognize when something is nefarious. This is precisely why scammers prey on older adults more than anyone else! Billions of dollars are lost each year due to these scams, much of it unrecoverable.

The FBI has reached out to educate Americans about some of the most common financial scams that seniors may find themselves falling victim to. Read on to learn more!

The Miracle Cure

Seniors already feel vulnerable when they have been diagnosed with a chronic or long-term health condition. It can leave them desperate for a cure, and one of the most common scams on seniors today is the “miracle cure” scams. Here are a few tips to help:

  • Most important of all, never take anything that did not come from the treating physician! Even if it’s a supplement bought in a place that feels safe, advertising can be very misleading with outrageous claims that do nothing more than extract your senior’s hard-earned money.
  • If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is! Promises of a cure or a life without sickness are enticing, especially if it’s endorsed by a celebrity. But that alone should cause you to pause and be suspicious. Celebrities are paid large amounts of money to say whatever the manufacturer wants them to say!
  •  If you aren’t sure, contact the BBB (Better Business Bureau). The Food and Drug Administration is very careful about what is approved to be sold, and many scammers will continue on with their products, even if the FDA has not approved it. If the BBB has had complaints before on a certain product, you should steer clear!

Final Wishes Fraud

You’ve probably noticed all the commercials these days from companies who claim to help you plan for your final wishes. This is an emotional decision for anyone and therefore can leave seniors who may be grieving a loss, vulnerable to be taken advantage of. Here is what you should know any time you are planning funeral arrangements:

  • Never do it by yourself! Seniors should always have another trusted family member with them when making final
  • Call several funeral homes before going to meet with them. By law, they are mandated to give you the pricing over the phone.
  • If you have chosen cremation, it is NOT necessary to purchase a casket. It is also not necessary to pay for embalming in that case. Both of those things can add huge amounts of money to the grand total and should not be forced upon you!
  • Never sign any contracts without taking the time to read through and ask questions, and make sure you understand what you’re signing. If possible, have a trusted friend or family member look at it with you.

Telemarketer Tips

Telemarketers prey on seniors, who are often lonely and enjoy engaging in conversation. Seniors may not be aware of common scam tactics such as:

  • Rewards that are “free,” yet require a small fee to be able to receive it.
  • Asking for a personal credit card or checking account information.
  • Being pushy about a purchase—the scammer doesn’t want to lose the sale!
  • Trying to sell services that require payment ahead of time.

Keep your senior loved ones safe by talking to them often about who calls, the mail they receive, and talk openly and often! Scammers often think older adults are not smart enough to know the difference, but you can help your loved one know what to look out for in this world of greedy scammers!

For more info on detecting scams among the elderly, please contact us today!

Home Helpers of Cherry Hill is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, 24-hour care and live-in care, Alzheimer’s & dementia care, Parkinson’s care. post-operative home care as well as homemaker services in Audubon, Barrington, Berlin, Berlin Township, Cherry Hill, Clementon, Collingswood, Evesham Township, Gibbsboro, Haddon Heights, Haddon Township, Haddonfield, Hainesport, Lawnside, Lindenwold, Lumberton, Marlton, Medford, Medford Lakes, Merchantville, Oaklyn, Pemberton, Pennsauken, Pine Valley, Tavistock, and Voorhees, New Jersey.

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This blog provides general information and discussions about medicine, health, and related subjects. The words and other content provided in this blog, and in any linked materials, are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice. If the reader or any other person has a medical concern, he or she should consult with an appropriately-licensed physician or other healthcare workers.

Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this blog or in any linked materials. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately.

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