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Author: Home Helpers® Home Care

Over the many years that Home Helpers has provided in-home care for seniors in the Clearwater area, we’ve had many senior clients who were no longer able to drive due to recurring accidents, visual or hearing impairment, cognitive decline, physical constraints, and even side effects from medications.

Of course, they did not want to relinquish their driving privileges, but most seniors understood the necessity of having someone else provide transportation assistance to preserve their safety as well as the safety of others on the road.

Many people wait to have the tough conversation about taking away their senior loved one's keys, and many times, they wait too long, which results in an accident or an injury to their loved one or someone else. That’s why it’s important for seniors to realize that older driver safety may require driving retirement.

Know When it is Time to Have the Tough Conversation About Driving Retirement

• Carefully observe your senior loved one’s physical and mental health condition. If they are experiencing difficulties reading or seeing things, visual impairment may be problematic, especially with night driving. Also, if they frequently misplace their keys, forgetfulness may be an issue.
• Have your senior loved one drive you somewhere. Before getting in the vehicle, look for new scratches and dents. While you are riding with them, make mental notes about their driving performance in terms of reaction times, distractions, and navigation of roadways, lane closures, and detours.
• Ask them if they have ever gotten lost while driving. They may hesitate to tell you, but many times seniors get lost, even though they've gone a short distance. Something may look unfamiliar, and the next thing you know, they've driven several miles out of their way just because they got confused or lost.
• Talk to their doctor. Ask your senior loved one’s medical professional about their thoughts concerning your senior loved one driving. Request that they perform mobility and eye exams to ensure your aging loved one is safe to drive.
• Consider driver's education for seniors in the Clearwater area through the local Suncoast Safety Council or Nations Traffic Safety School. Nations offers Senior Defensive Driving Courses in-person and online.

Having the Tough Conversation about Driving Retirement

You know, your loved one shouldn't be driving any longer, but you're having difficulty starting this tough conversation. After all, driving may be their last bit of independence that they're clinging to, and they really don’t want to talk about it.

Many times, I have referenced my own mother, and this isn't a funny story, but it did happen one day. I talked to her about her driving and giving up her driver's license, which she didn't want to do.

She told me that she had driven herself to the doctor's office that day, and she only had to pick up her leg once to move it from the gas pedal to the brake. That was more than a little concerning, prompting my tough conversation with her that began like this, “If you don't care about yourself, please think about the other people on the road that you might have had an accident with, resulting in injuries to yourself or them.”

It’s essential to have patience and empathy when discussing driving retirement. Your loved one will want to know how they will get to the grocery store, the doctor’s office, the hair salon, and more when they can no longer drive. Plus, they will not want to rely on people – or burden others – to provide transportation assistance. And this transitions us into reviewing the options…and there are other options.

Neighbors, friends, family members, and church parishioners are usually happy to help by taking seniors where they need to go or picking up whatever they need. There are ride-share services, like Uber and Lyft, and most cities have a taxi service. Nowadays, grocery stores offer delivery options, and you can order just about anything online that can be delivered by mail or parcel shipments.

A great idea is to consider leveraging a doctor's authority. When you take your senior loved one to a doctor's appointment, ask the doctor to reiterate the dangers and concerns of your loved one continuing to drive, especially with the number of distracted drivers on the roadways these days.

Perhaps you can speak to the doctor before the appointment. When a medical professional makes recommendations, a senior is more willing to accept driving retirement than if the conversation about giving up their driver’s license comes from a family member.

Home Helpers® provides transportation assistance for our senior clients, as well. A licensed, bonded, and insured caregiver will drive seniors to their doctor's appointments, the hair salon, the grocery store, and anywhere else they need to go.

 
I am happy to offer a FREE Consultation at your convenience to assess specific needs and match the perfect caregiver to make life easier and provide more peace of mind for everyone.

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